Monday, February 24, 2014

MOVING DAY- goodbye dead chickens and cockroaches

 Monday February 17, 2014
Dear family and friends,

            Wow this past week was so busy.  Things are really good though. My health has improved dramatically, the temperature has dropped dramatically, we moved to a dramatically better place, and my companion and I are working well together.  Sister Rosario is very sharp, though she is a bundle of nervous energy.  She is not timid or nervous, but she is always anticipating the next step…kind of like how a thoroughbred is always anticipating your next move.  I am learning how to help her take it down a notch, and how to stop perseverating on one thing.  Also, man is she a talker!  I am realizing that I am not a talker. She is focused on her fiancé and her family and I am hoping that it is just part of the adjustment process.  I am trying to remember that she has only been on a mission for 4 weeks so it is hard for her to remain focused on investigators, working with members, and all of the details of missionary work.  I must admit that it is hard for me to remain focused when my companion is detailing her love story.
           In fact, our entire house has turned a bit “EFY” these past weeks, meaning lots of young energy and talking about boys and stuff… Sister Brown’s companion also has a fiancé, which is pretty common thing down here to serve while being engaged.  Sister B. also has at least 9 guy friends who write her regularly.  Me?  I am the “emotionally liberated”  missionary.  It is really actually the first time in my life that being VERY single has been a pro.  I am able to remain focused on my purpose here and now.  I try to keep our house (or at least my companionship) on task. 
Zone training

Tuesday
            Zone training meeting quote of the day, “ If you don’t have a baptismal date marked for someone, find an inactive family and baptize their kids! The members will be happy to see a baptism.”   Uh…NOT the right way to go about things guys.  They just want numbers and aren’t thinking about whether or not this little child will remain active in the church, or about the family’s welfare.  It’s... whatever.  I’m keeping my mouth shut. For now.  They also call another zone fast (in 95+ degree conditions).  I did not participate but many people did and they were sick Wednesday through Friday.  Ugghh.  The next time this happens, I will directly call Sister Lima.

Wednesday
            It was a pretty chill day that ended by cleaning the chapel in preparation for our zone activity, “Capela Aberta”, that we will have tomorrow.




Thursday
            We had our activity.  I think that I detailed this activity the last time that we did it with Sister S.  It turned out to be a great success!  Carlos, our WML, was a huge help and we had awesome members of every organization explaining basic things to investigators and even people off of the street.  We also invited a lot of people to go on church tours.  Our chapel is one of the biggest and nicest buildings in Santa Margarida, and many people are curious to see inside.  With our zone's help, we managed 542 contact, 93 lessons, 120 people interested in us visiting them, 16 people who completed a church tour, and 4 people who committed to baptism!  It was awesome.  Everything was really well organized (thanks to my OCD and Carlos’s perfectionism.) It seemed like the other missionaries had good experiences too. 
            During the activity, we had J.’s baptismal interview.  We asked her, “Why after 7 years of marriage to a member of the church do you want to be baptized now?”  She answered, “Because I want to have an eternal family.”  It was a beautiful reminder to me that baptism is just the beginning of what we are trying to do to help people.  There are so many steps that lead to more blessings that come after the first step of baptism. 
 Friday – February 14th – SINGLE’S AWARENESS DAY
            Sister R. had a really bad headache and slept through all of our studies and weekly planning meeting. This was actually a blessing for me because I was able to organize all of our referencias da atividado (area record book) the way that I wanted to do it.  I came up with a symbol and color coordinated system based upon the individual’s level of interest. (Which Carlos basically ended up drooling over, haha!)  It was really nice to just be able to “be in my head” and use some of the gifts that I developed while going to school.  This week was a week for decision-making, problem solving, organizing, and prioritizing. 
           Elder A. finally went to the office so I FINALLY got my packages! Holy smokes, I got four packages as once!  I love love love the bag, shoes, candy, DVDs, cards, snowflakes, calendars, cookie mix, etc.  Everything was perfect! I laughed and cried while opening all of them. Thank you so much everyone, the packages definitely help to raise my spirits. The best part was that the valentine’s stuff actually arrived today.  It is definitely the best valentines day of my life. (I do hope for better ones in the future.)
It was a long wait for a messenger bag.
Thanks Mom!
Valentines on Valentine's Day!


Horse Snowflake - by my sister the artist
Angel Moroni Snowflake
Maddie sent me DENTAL FLOSS - she knows me so well!
Maddie's package mailed Dec. 3


         





It's snowing wiener dogs!
             




          We came home early today so that we could MOVE!!!!  No more cockroaches and living next to a chicken slaughterhouse (oops, I don’t think that I ever told you about that part of my living conditions.) We all worked on getting things ready to go.  Sister B and I tried to keep our young companions on task and we managed to finish the packing around 11:00 pm.

Saturday
            Our District and Zone leaders showed up around 7:30 am to help with the move. Carlos and our truck showed up shortly after that.  Carlos earned at least a 1,000 brownie points this week for being an amazing WML and problem solver.  I am so grateful that we have a mutual respect that has led to a desire to go the extra mile.  I am really going to miss him.  I am pretty sure that I will be here to finish Sister R.’s 12 week training, and then I will get transferred.  President Lima wrote me a letter last week telling me that I am doing exceptional work (quite a change from “what happened?” a few weeks earlier.) Of course, just as I know that my time is coming to a close here, I am getting really attached to Santa Margarida.  Like I legitimately love the members and feel like a real part of the ward.  It will be hard to leave after all that I have been through.
It is a happy move!


The Moving Crew
            Anyways, back to the move.  It was actually legitimately fun.  P-day clothes, cool weather, and a break from the daily grind.  The Elders were beasts and we got just about everything moved in and unpacked and organized by 12:30 pm.  I made the Elders cookies and French toast so they were pretty happy.  Our new house is PERFECT.  It is nice, and not just “Brazil nice”, but actually nice-nice!  (minus the cold showers which is next on my problems that need to be solved list).  The house is huge and has THREE bathrooms! 
Do you remember the Sim’s game where you could tell how you were doing based on the color diamond that floated above their head?  The color would vary from bright green to deep red.  I feel like at the old house I average a pee- yellow color.  But our quality of life has significantly improved and I am now at a bright green!  Our house is also 1 minute from a supermarket, and 3 minutes from the church.  It’s PERFECT!
New bathroom
New Patio
New Kitchen
            We had J.’s baptism in the afternoon.  It was simple and special.  Eduardo worked hard to be worthy to baptize and confirm his wife.  It was a special moment to witness this little family make the first steps to an eternal relationship. 
The BEST part of my great week.
            S. was on date to also be baptized today, but we got a call from our WML about 2 hours before the baptism.  His voice sounded tight and worried. S. called him and said she couldn’t be baptized because she was having “lady problems”.  Carlos was like, “Uhh, I’ve never run into this problem before, what do we do?”  We called our District leader and told him and he was like, “ Uhh, I don’t know what to do, let me call the Zone leaders.”  Haha…all of the priesthood leaders were flustered over menstruation!  We got things sorted out and S. will be baptized next week.  Side Note:  There is a reason why us Americans have to bring our personal hygiene supplies with us to Brazil….because people don't use tampons at all down here.  There are lots of fears and misconceptions down here, which have led to a few biology lessons with the companions.
S. and her son M with the missionaries.
M. is an outstanding young man, son, and future missionary.
Sunday
            It was a good day.  J. was confirmed, our investigators came to church, and the weather was so pleasant.  We also got rain for the first time in a long time.  Well folks, I think that brings me up to date.  Things are going really well right at the moment, but I have a feeling that more trials are coming.  It is the Lord’s way to teach and strengthen his people. I am grateful for the good times and the hard times on my mission so far. I know that the Lord answers prayers.  I know that He always will points in the right directions, but that it is our responsibility to start walking. I love seeing people make the first few critical steps of conversion.  It is wonderful.  My theme for this week is Alma 29.  I love you guys.  Thanks for the packages, the prayers and the love.

Sister Colvin
                        

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